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M1450
The Courage to Face and Love Life
by Martinus

1. The human desire for martyrdom
All human beings need to know something about how to face up to and love life. Because he who has the proper courage to face up to and love life cannot be overcome by negative forces. As long as a human being thinks that something is wrong he is not in harmony with life. As long as someone is sad, annoyed, or becomes embittered and disappointed, one has not yet acquired a correct outlook, and then one cannot face up to and love life properly. Some human beings even go as far as to commit suicide because they lack the ability to face up to and love life. By doing so, however, they have not finished with life, they have only postponed their difficulties to their next incarnation. But of course the best thing is to keep one's physical body as long as it is serviceable.
What is necessary, however, in order to be able to face up to and to love life in the right way and to go on doing so? The answer is: One must learn to love one's neighbour as oneself! Doing so gives you cheerfulness and preserves it for you. But why do people lose heart, over and over again? Because life does not turn out as they expected or wanted it to do. Martyrdom is the mental content which mostly sapping human cheerfulness. Martyrdom is one of mankind's worst enemies because it is a vital lie. In reality there is no such thing as martyrdom, because nobody can suffer wrong, and nobody can inflict wrongs on another. If one could do so, or if anything in life could be without design or intent then human beings could be certain of nothing and the whole universe would be in a state of chaos. This it evidently is not; on the contrary it is a perfect example of order and an expression of the highest logic. Nothing is incidental, so when the human beings are worried and have troubles and regard themselves as martyrs, it is because they believe themselves to be the victims of injustice. Such a feeling of martyrdom may be result of the inclemency of the forces of nature. The farmer for example regards himself as a martyr when his crops fail or his cattle sicken and die. In relation to catastrophes of nature people may also feel themselves as martyrs when the elements break loose and they are helplessly exposed to the giant forces of nature. It is, however, in relation to other human beings that the feeling of martyrdom most frequently arises. If somebody is slandering you or tries to annoy you, you may think that he or she tries to do you harm and consider yourself a martyr who is treated unfairly, and so you will waste a lot of energy on negative thoughts and feelings of self-pity which is most injurious to human beings both physically and psychically. Through Cosmology it will come to one's knowledge that in reality evil does not exist in this world, and that everything is love and intellectuality. It is very difficult for mankind to understand this, but it is most important to learn that it is so. The universe is a manifestation of the highest and most brilliant perfection. However, as man's knowledge and scientific understanding do not yet embrace the whole universe but only a local part of it, then the great majority of people still remain subject to partial and erroneous judgement. If a fly is crawling over a picture and everything it sees at the moment is black, it would describe everything in life as black if it were able to speak. In the same way a human being may consider life to be "black" and so become a pessimist because he is lacking in sufficient breadth of view over the great cosmic entirety, of which the so called "black" is but a small part. In reality everything is in harmony. While certain conditions prevail within the consciousness it may, however, lead to disharmony until one achieves a greater knowledge and consequently a broader perspective of life.
2. Christ was no martyr, but an ideal example
Here somebody may raise the objection that the Crucifixion of Christ was a real martyrdom. It was not so, however. But how could it possibly be just and right that an innocent being should suffer the death of a convict? It was by no means in order to reconcile an angry God, but in order to set mankind an example of a divine-humane way of living. Christ knew and was perfectly familiar with his mission before he incarnated in this world. He knew that by exposing himself to crucifixion he made an apparent breach with intelligence. He knew in advance that by letting himself be born on earth, he would expose his physical body to crucifixion. If he, however, had not let himself be crucified, something much worse would have happened - in that case the world would have received no fundamental demonstration of the way in which even the greatest sufferings are born by a highly developed being, and the human race would not have developed so far as it has now. Thanks to Christ's life and his way of acting, and thanks to his death without hate and embitterment while pleading to God for his tormentors, and thanks to his resurrection into a spiritual and gradually perfectly materialized body, mankind has come into possession of a series of eternal truths. Truths, in accordance with which it can live and also face death, and which in the future will become of the greatest importance when human beings come to a real understanding of the cosmic or universal meaning of these truths.
The human beings will learn that they are alive all the time, no matter whether they are "here" or they are "dead". They will realize that the spirit ought to rule matter and not the opposite. When man is sorrow-stricken, embittered or disappointed it is a sign that he has been overcome by matter instead of the contrary. The creative principle ought to control matter; it is unworthy that matter should dominate the creative faculty. Man will become the master of life and matter. For this to come true, however, it is necessary that man has obtained a general knowledge not only of the little, local aspects of everyday life but of the connection between these sections and the cosmic or universal whole. This is what I try to make evident through my cosmic analyses. I demonstrate that the I, the fixed point of the living being, is the master of matter and not the reverse. But why, then, are not all people sovereign, why are they not Christ-beings? Let us compare this question with another one: Why is one human being a child and another one a grown-up person? Concerning both questions it is obvious that when all people are not of the same age, are not equally developed, this is due to the fact that their experiences concerning the contrasts of life are not equally wide. All that bears the name of development is based on the experience of contrasts. When a grown-up person, i.e. a person of mature years, is able to think and act differently from a little child, it is owing to his life-experiences, especially those resulting from suffering and troubles of the past.
This is valid in one life, but it is also valid concerning the development which takes place in a cycle so great as that which I call an evolutionary spiral. When man is able to act otherwise than an animal, and when developed man is able to act and think differently from primitive man, this is due to the difference between their cosmic ages in the spiral of evolution to which they belong, i.e. it is due to their different experiences concerning the contrast principle. Life must hold contrasts, if not, it would be impossible to experience life. We can only enter into an experience to the degree that we have known its opposite already. Thus, one is able to experience love only to the extent one has experienced the consequences of hatred. The more one has met with darkness and suffering, as well as light and joy, the more it becomes possible to be in harmony with the laws of life. Based on its experiences the living being's I will become master of both spiritual and physical matter, and when, at the present times more and more people have developed an inquiring mind and exhibit peace-loving traits then this is due to the suffering they have undergone during many past incarnations.
3. Spiral cycles, the principle of contrast, the unpleasant and the pleasant good
A very long time ago we lived in the spiritual and divine world, where we experienced the most elevated harmony. It was before we began to experience the spiral of evolution in which we now find ourselves. At that time our bodies were not made up of physical matter but of spiritual matter of a much more perfect quality. It was in the zone of light of an underlying spiral cycle. We stayed there for so long a time that we were satiated with all the light, love and perfection we met with there. And we began to long for contrasts to this state of things, and to us these contrasts became "the light". It is a divine blessing that one is able to experience the contrast to that with which one has become satiated. If it were not so, life would come to a standstill, because everything would become automatic and the living beings would turn into robots. And even in the world of light a state as a robot would have no relation to the experience of beauty and happiness. The consciousness of the living being must be renewed so that it again will be able to experience light, and this renewal takes place through the zone of darkness of the coming spiral. The longing for the contrast to that with which one is satiated we know from the symbolical narrative of Adam and Eve. They lived in Paradise, in light, where they were allowed to "eat freely of every tree of the garden". One tree only they were not allowed to touch, but this one thing, i.e. the contrast, tempted them and so the fall of man occurred. The creation of Adam and Eve and their "Fall" is a symbolical narrative of the development of mankind during the present evolutionary spiral. Coming from the mineral kingdom we developed through the vegetable and the animal kingdoms until we arrived at the stage where we are today. The fall of man did not take place only once upon a time, it takes place all the time. It is a reality in the divine administration of life which is expressed or symbolized by the concept of "the Fall", and inside the new evolutionary spiral it causes the living being to develop from the embryo in which state terrestrial man still finds himself into a more advanced state at which he will be enabled to experience what I term "The Great Birth" or "The Birth of Cosmic Consciousness". Having arrived at this state the "I"s of the living beings will again be perfectly sovereign over matter, thereby obtaining and invincible courage to face and love life.
Terrestrial humanity is at present passing through the zone of culminating darkness of an evolutionary spiral and is on its way towards the regions of light of this spiral. This is so because the living beings themselves, have a long time ago, longed for this state of darkness. Now they want to experience another state, and they will get what they want and long for. This fulfilment, however, will not take place miraculously, but it will take place because the living beings will learn how to create the state they are longing for. Through the knowledge of darkness light will gradually be created in the consciousness of mankind. We decide our own fate ourselves, and it is a divine arrangement that what we long for will always appear as a light ahead, and that with which we are satiated as darkness behind us. Therefore, in real life one cannot speak about something as evil or good, but only about the unpleasant good and the pleasant good. Nothing is evil in itself. But when nothing is evil in itself, martyrdom does not exist either. What is, then, so-called martyrdom? It is but a delusion.
4. Terrestrial man is in a cosmic zone of education
A little child is often disappointed if it does not get what it wants, for example a sharp knife. It thinks the grown-up person who will not give it the knife is evil, and it feels a martyr. It does not know that the wish is dangerous to itself and to its surroundings. When it grows older and more capable of learning for itself it gets the knife and must then learn to take the consequences. In the same way the wishes of human beings may be dangerous and for some time perhaps they are very disappointed not to have their wishes gratified because they are still incapable of learning from the consequences. When they are able to do so, however, they achieve their wishes at their own peril. This sequence of cause and effect, which is the same as the law of karma, covers a series of incarnations during which the human beings sow and, as time goes on and they become ready for it, they also reap what they have sown. The fulfilment of many a wish of theirs will bring them pain and suffering although they had expected something quite different. All kinds of pain and suffering are like a bell ringing when the living beings are going astray, and this warning bell will lead them back to a more charitable outlook and so give them the courage to face and love life. It is true that the human suffering can be very great, so great that it appears unjust and absurd when kept in a local perspective. However, human beings so very often contravene the laws of life to a very high degree with the effect that the results are proportional to their causes. This by no means implies that because human beings at present experience severe difficulties that they should be regarded as "great sinners" who are undergoing just punishment, and that the persons concerned should be exempt from our compassion. Seen from the cosmic viewpoint there are no sinners and no sin, since nothing in life is evil in itself. Once ignorance is overcome, then evil, so-called, will exist no longer. This means that where a living being has undergone a series of experiences to the extent that they have crystallized within his consciousness as knowledge of darkness, i.e. of the effects of the "unpleasant good", then the contrast to this, which is light, will commence to radiate throughout his consciousness and manners in the shape of wisdom and ability to feel and express love towards his neighbour. Diseases, disappointments, embitterment and hate cannot exist in conjunction with such mental vibrations but will disappear little by little, and so the living being has emerged from the "age of the Fall". This "age of the Fall" was no punishment or something horrible which had to happen, but an embryonic stage of development before the living being would be able to appear as sovereign man in the image and likeness of God.
5. The fruits from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil have come from seed of one's own sowing
Human beings need to recognize and know the truth concerning life and thereby the truth about their own lives. In earlier times religions have stimulated them with dogmas on which they could base their lives, because their religious instinct and their feelings were an excellent and fertile soil for blind faith. Religious suggestion was capable of reviving their courage to face up to and love life when they were losing it. However, throughout a growing area of the world this is no longer the case. Terrestrial man's intelligence has grown by being used in practical and material spheres of activity, and in order to proceed further with their development the human beings must now also learn to use their intelligence in those areas in which faith previously was able to help. Intelligence is of course not identical with wisdom, but it is one of the ingredients of which wisdom is composed. It needs only to be used in a more advanced and wide perspective than human beings ordinarily employ, and it has to be used in conjunction with charity,
I have mentioned previously that "the fall of man" is taking place continuously. Indeed, terrestrial human beings of today exemplify precisely "Adam and Eve" eating of the fruits of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. The sufferings, the hardships, the disease and all the other things belonging to the so-called evil are some of these fruits. They are, however, nothing but the fruits from seeds they have sown themselves through previous acts and behaviour. What does terrestrial man learn from the destiny he experiences in his everyday life? He obtains information of what he has sown previously both in this life as well as in former lives. He now experiences the consequences of his previous acts. This is, however, an education, an instruction and by no means a punishment, and it will cause him to follow new lines of thought as well as new courses of action.
At present a large number of people have no heart for certain lines of action but which others have no hesitation in pursuing. This is due to the fact that the former have experienced the painful consequences of such acts so often that they feel them keenly within themselves and as a consequence they cannot possibly inflict on other beings a similar experience. Once upon a time human beings believed in religions such as recounted in old Norse mythology, and at that age condition of darkness was yet "the light" to mankind. It was considered a piece of: good luck to be killed in the battlefield because consequently you were taken to Valhalla, which to them was the same as Paradise, while it was considered a calamity to die in one's bed of old age or disease, because then you were sure to go straight to the Hell of that time. At present most people do not take up such an attitude, not even those who are fighting on the battlefields. They do not fight for the sake of war any more, but for the sake of peace, and they do not make a sport of it as they did previously. But they will come to learn that this transformation of consciousness is not enough to exterminate war. You cannot exterminate anything by cultivating it, not even if you do it with the best of intentions. If you want to exterminate war you must learn to create its opposite, which in this case means peace.
6. The faculty of love must, together with intelligence, be used in a new way
Peace has to be created by each individual; it must actually emerge out of the individual's consciousness and of his way of acting. In the human mind a collaboration between his intelligence and his faculty of love must arise. Love only given you the courage to face up to and love life, but of course human beings must learn to use this love with reason and intelligence. In many cases people are of the opinion that it would not be logical to display love; on the contrary they think it would be highly illogical and foolish. Such people, however, are ignorant of both love and logic. Certainly, it is difficult to love your neighbour as yourself when: this neighbour is unpleasant to you, and perhaps even persecutes you, but Christ emphasized this very command: "Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you!" (Matt. 5, 44). It is very easy to love those who are nice, fond, and helpful to us; it does not cost us any effort to do so. But it is very hard and difficult to love those who do not like us, and some people might even find it impossible to do so, and lots of people might regard it as hypocritical because they believe that nobody can really love evil and unpleasant people. Previously, however, we have arrived at the conclusion that nothing is evil by itself. Things may be unpleasant, but they can never be evil. In addition, from a cosmic point of view the unpleasant things are but "the unpleasant good" because they are the real cause of man's development. In fact, it is even because of the unpleasant experiences that terrestrial man has developed a conscience which is able to "know good and evil" as it says in the Old Testament about the Fall. Through the bodily and psychical experience of "the unpleasant good" during many lives or incarnations we have developed from primitive sub-human beings into the present civilized man who is able to feel great compassion with other people's sufferings and difficulties, and who is also in possession of a fairly developed intelligence, so being able to draw conclusions from cause to effect in many fields.
Many of these civilized people who have a great faculty of compassion and who also have a fairly developed intelligence with which they think and act logically in their work and in their local fields, belong precisely to those human beings who lose the courage to face up to and love life because of all the malice in the world and so become depressed, disappointed and perhaps downright ill as a consequence of their negative mental state. Everything, their own situation and that of the world, they find hopeless, and they see no means or possibility for improvement. They become pessimists if they do not go to the other extreme and become indifferent because they find everything absurd. It is for such human beings I have created my analyses in order to help them so that they will be able to use their faculty of love and compassion together with their intelligence in another and more positive way which, as a consequence, will give back to them the courage to face up to and love life again.
7. Terrestrial man's pattern of life
Until they become acquainted with the truth of life, the living beings have not become properly human. It will influence the individual immensely if he or she is able to look upon all people they deal with as the instruments of God. They can, all of them, be likened to the fingers of God which are modelling us. And it is only a good thing that God, like the sculptor, removes something from the places where we are not perfect. In all honesty, numerous people are not content or pleased with themselves. They long for and wish to change in order to become better, wiser, and more affectionate. They feel very clearly that they are imperfect beings. As a consequence of this, however, you must learn to be pleased that God is working in you and shows you the road to take. God teaches each single individual by means of that which takes place in the individual's daily life. All that in life which to him who uses a narrow-minded, local logic might look like accidentally tangled threads, all that will turn into a pattern of life to him who is beginning to use the cosmic logic and so has become able to see that nothing is hazard and nothing is unjust. When we have the feeling of being martyrs it means that we are basing our lives on superstition, and nobody can be happy if he continues in this way.
Of course I meet with both pleasant and unpleasant experiences, but I know that there are such things as the pleasant and the unpleasant good, and I know that everything which comes to pass is an application tome from God, no matter by means of whom it takes place. God does not speak to us by means of a single being; all beings are instruments which might be used by God when He wishes to communicate with a living being. If you are annoyed with these beings you are actually annoyed with the Deity, with God. As long as you are annoyed with certain troubles, they will come back again and again. This means that the unfinished parts of a human being's conscience has to be ground smooth. This will not stop until the polishing is perfect. But why do you allow yourself to be annoyed with other people? Because you think they ought to be different from what they are! Human beings are so different and of course each single individual must be precisely, what he or she is just now. In the same way as the animals are what they are. Human beings make the mistake to demand the same behaviour from less developed beings as they do from the higher developed ones, and they despise the beings whom they consider to be less developed, while they are so great snobs to those they look up to, that it verges on a personality cult and idolatry. None of these attitudes is to love one's neighbour as oneself, for true, neighbourly love is to love all living beings, all instruments and organs of the Deity, and to try to find God in all of them.
If you are facing an unpleasant human being, two things should be taken into consideration: In the first place you must remember that it is your own karma which has brought you into contact with this person and so provided you with the opportunity to meet with this trial in toleration and equanimity. In the second place you must try to overlook what this being is at present, and consider what the future stage of this person will be. One must not forget that the person in question has arrived at the temporary zenith of his existence and that he cannot be blamed for lack of experiences not yet encountered and from which he therefore has not been able to learn. At some future time he will learn and, eventually achieve cosmic consciousness, and then perhaps you will meet under quite different circumstances than the present. Of course you cannot mention this to the person involved, because he or she would most likely then believe you to be out of your mind. In your heart, however, you may think: "Even you are a divine being, and so it is but a natural thing to be kind and affectionate to you!" Love, however, is more than a pat on the cheek. Here the point is to do what in this special situation is most kind, and to do so without any form of anger, embitterment, disappointment or irritation. It is quite possible to be firm without being ill-tempered, and you may even reprimand someone in a kindly and affectionate manner - without banging the table!
8. Man may become an instrument for the Essence of Light
We must not forget, however, that none of us is able to alter another person, and one can meet with anything of which he is, himself, not the absolutely first cause. Therefore it is most important to apply both feeling and intelligence in the various situations of everyday life in order to try to forgive and understand other human beings. For this we have no greater example than Christ who, when crucified, was yet able to pray: "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do" (St. Luke, 23, 34). When you have so far developed as to be one hundred per cent capable to adopt this attitude, you have become invincible. Then you are perfectly free even if you are tied up in slave chains. The body like other physical things can be bound, but when you have come to know your identity as a divine being, you will know also that the "I" cannot be fettered. The human being who has come into possession of the courage to face up to and love life, based on love towards all living beings, he or she cannot be fettered, even if enslaved. We are so constituted that we can control nobody but ourselves. It is true that some people feel themselves dependent on and even constrained by others, but for this the others cannot be blamed. It is due to the fact that the person concerned has involved himself in an emotional relationship, from which he alone can disengage himself. It is never the fault of others, and the more you realize this, the more you will be able to extricate yourself from the shackles of anger and embitterment with which you have been tied up by yourself.
The purpose of world-redemption is to make human beings understand life and to accept the lessons in the laws of life they can get here. Just imagine the effect of not being annoyed with events happening, but instead of this trying to understand, that these are the entirely proper things to happen in the present situation when looking back on the past, and in anticipation of the benefit you empirically know you will have from them in the future. One must not allow oneself to be annoyed or disappointed because of the behaviour of other human beings any more than one should not be disappointed with a thistle or a dandelion because they are not a rose or a lily. Christ said to his disciples: "Go ye therefore and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost". What kind of baptism is this? The real baptism, the only one of importance, is the loving interaction in everyday life between oneself and one's fellow men. The real baptism is to communicate the Essence of Light to others through one's own attitude and behaviour. You cannot change them, but you can set an example which will have a long-time effect. In reality this Essence of Light does not come from yourself, it comes from God and reaches your fellowmen through you as a medium. Then you have become a being who has the courage to face up to life and to love your fellow beings, and so, through your interaction with them to bring God into their minds and hearts. And so no feeling of martyrdom will remain in the consciousness of man, and even if he finds himself on a battlefield, light and peace will emanate from him.
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Original Danish title: Livsmodet. A lecture was given by Martinus on 1st April 1941 in Glahns Allé, Frederiksberg, Denmark. Edited by Mogens Møller and approved by Martinus. First published in the Danish edition of Kosmos nos. 4 and 5, 1969. Translated by Ingrid Okkels.
Article ID: M1450
Published in the English edition of Kosmos nos. 2-3, 1978

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